Selfishness is Comforting

I know, I know, this sounds so bloody stupid but I swear that by the end of this post you will completely agree. Selfishness is comforting when you look at it in a particular way. And I’m almost certain that if you are someone who has hit rock bottom and ended up looking at motivational shit then you will have read that people don’t really concentrate on you all that much because we as humans are wired to only care about ourselves or some shit like that.

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So why is that comforting? Why should you like the fact that nobody gives a shit about stuff that doesn’t affect them? Because they don’t give a shit! It is literally in the question. You can do whatever the hell you feel like and people will forget it in a second because they are back to focusing on themselves. Even if they aren’t outwardly selfish, we are wired to think and worry about ourselves and that is what we will do. We always overthink everything we do and wonder how people perceive us but they don’t. They don’t perceive us. They may have things to say and shit like that which I know sucks but overall it isn’t important. The most important thing in everyone’s life is themselves so while they might dwell on stupid, irrelevant shit, they are gonna move on and completely forget.

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I have to admit that sometimes when people say that it can be quite depressing. I mean here is me literally telling you that nobody cares about what you wear or what you do and nobody gives a shit, but like you just gotta train yourself to see that in a good light. You can go out and wear what you want, do what you want, and be yourself because while people may have opinions and maybe they will say some shit behind your back or to your face but you just gotta realise that we as a species are selfish. Eventually, they are gonna forget but if they don’t they will eventually die and it’s hardly gonna be a family story that will be passed down from generation to generation. There isn’t gonna be a whole history topic about how you fell off a chair that one time, or how you had a bad hair day.

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Let’s test something out. What is the most embarrassing thing you have ever seen someone else do? Did you answer it? OK, then what was the most embarrassing thing that you have ever done? If you are like me, you couldn’t think of anything embarrassing someone else did. Maybe it was something random like I think I saw this person trip up the stairs that one time in school, but do you remember who it was? Do you remember what they did after it happened? What do you really remember from that situation? Probably nothing and that is because it doesn’t matter. If we stick with the selfish shit, I can only really remember how I reacted and that’s if I could remember a situation at all. And while I don’t know all the science shit about brains and memories, but I know it’s a fucking smart organ, so I’d guess it wouldn’t store all that pointless crap. It just wants to survive and I don’t think that memory is something you need.

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So next time that you go out, you go out with confidence and purpose because no matter what happens, nobody will make fun of you for it when you are 80. I would say that if they have as bad a memory as me that they wouldn’t even remember it in the morning. I dare you to just be yourself. Wear whatever the hell it is you want to wear. Maybe a funky pair of jeans, a top that makes you feel sexy, fucking socks and sandals! You do you bitch! Everyone is too selfish to care and that is one of the best things in the world. And if anyone seems like they are bothered by it for more than one second then they are jealous. They just want to be you because as I said, we don’t remember things that don’t affect us, so they obviously just want to become you!

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Do you understand what I mean now? Selfishness is probably one of the greatest things we can remember when we feel scared to do something or embarrassed to dress a certain way. You can do what you want and people won’t even care or remember. If they didn’t remember you it’s probably because you inspired them to try out new fashion items or to be loud and proud. So you start the movement bitch! Go do whatever the hell you feel like and never apologize. I hope you have a great day, stay safe and stay yourself PERIODT.

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What Has My Boredom Come To!

I’m not sure if I have mentioned this before but I have been trying to find ways to make money during lock-down so I can get out of hell, I mean school. I have found lots of ways actually and I have even made another blog about it. But I wanted to share one of the things I have made that is actually really cool and you guys should defo check it out. It is completely free and this isn’t an affiliate link, I just really think you guys should check it out.


So the website is called Teemill and what you can do is make your own online fashion store. Not even joking, and it is completely free. I will send you guys a link for what I have made and to be fair it is really fun. It doesn’t take long to set up and you get around 10% of the profits which is pretty good because you don’t put any money in before. Here is the link to my one – https://affiliateen.teemill.com/

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I wanted to share this because, as a teen, it is really fucking hard to find normal looking clothes that I actually like, especially as a girl. I am self-conscious and have the body shape of a piece of paper, so a lot of things don’t suit me. Although I am not necessarily making these clothes for me, I like to think I am helping out others that feel this way. I have some funny stuff and some motivational stuff. Like for example, I made one based of the post ‘for who‘ which actually seemed to blow up which is pretty cool if you ask me, and I also made one for women empowerment and I kind of really like it if you ask me. Here, I’ll show you some wee photos.

Yeah so that is just a few of them and the designs come in different hoodies, t-shirts and tote bags. I don’t know why but I found this really cool and random to do. As a teenager there are many things that people assume we like, but sometimes we just gotta go for the classics, so defo go check those out and go make some yourself. There are really cool things you can do with this and you can pay for the whole thing, but I use the free version which is pretty much all I need for starting up.

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My favourite thing though is that it is an eco-friendly business. They print all the tops and everything and they are made of recycled cotton I am pretty sure. But yeah, if you have some spare time you should get started on this. If you want a step by step guide on how to do this then go to may blog Affiliateen. Please don’t get the idea that this is just basically an ad. I just wanted to put it up to inspire people to just do what you want. I mean now you can go out and say you have your own clothing designs and that is pretty fucking awesome. The sky is the limit and I am so excited to see what you guys are gonna create because people will really benefit the fact that you have made clothes that they actually like. Don’t try to impress anyone with it. Just make what you want and you will find people just like you who want the same type of clothes.

So yeah, I hope this helped some of you and I would love to see what you guys make. Leave any comments of other types of clothes you would like me to make and I would be happy to make them. I hope you have a great day, stay safe and stay yourself PERIODT


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